Each day as I gaze across the room, I smile at a picture of a quilt. That may be seemingly simple, but to me it is beauty in every meaning of the word. The following quote is next to the picture.
“Families are like quilts,
lives pieced together,
stitched with smiles and tears,
colored with memories,
and bound with love”
That quote may seem simple to some but is so meaningful on a lot of levels for me. A family isn’t just born. Everyone has a different relationship, interacts with others slightly different and naturally finds that perfect mix of people. Events in our lives change the shape of families but love always takes precedence.
As someone who quilts, truer words have never been written. There is something about how precise each cut of fabric must be. The precision of sewing each seam and having a work of art come together right in front of your eyes.
The other day as I was working on a quilt, I was pondering the quote. It struck me how easily this could also be applied to healthcare and medicine. The precise cuts for each square or border can be compared to a surgeon making opening incisions for an operation.
Healthcare truly is a work of art. It may not seem like it many days, but a very large majority of the caregiver population, truly love the profession that they have chosen. I know that choosing nursing was something that I always wanted to do. There was never a doubt in my mind.
The process that takes place when a provider is assessing us, providing a treatment plan and follow-up recommendations can be compared to sewing a quilt together. All the pieces must be in place before it can be completed.
Many times, there are issues with our healthcare or health status and we are forced to take a step backwards or several. The same is done with a missed stitch or crooked seam on a quilt. Until the other day, I never had thought of healthcare this way. It is true though. Look at a quilt or blanket on your bed. The intricacies and character.
This takes us right back to “lives pieced together.” Every member of our family will eventually have an encounter with the healthcare community. Losing a portion of that quilt can be earth shattering. Then we are forced to pick up the pieces and move on, figuring out life once again.